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Facts And History About Wedding Rings

Facts And History About Wedding Rings. Wedding rings are pieces of jewelry that are worn by couples forever, symbolizing their eternal love for one another.

The reason why wedding rings are known to be circular in shape is because a circle has no beginning and no end; hence why marriages are meant to last forever.

During a wedding ceremony, there are certain rituals that are followed before placing the rings on the hands; however, the ring is almost always placed on the fourth finger of the left hand, which raises the question ‘why?’.

Thousand of years ago, there was a Greek and Roman belief that a vein from the fourth finger on the left hand ran directly to the heart. This vein was known as the ‘vena amoris’ also known as the vein of love.  This belief led to the tradition of wearing the wedding ring on that particular finger, symbolizing the love amongst the couple being married. According to scientific evidence, this myth is not true, however many individuals still like to believe it is.

The Chinese developed a theory, which is actually really interesting and a bit fun to try. If you look at your left hand, each finger is a representation of the past, present and future generations within your family. For example, the thumb represents your parents, your index finger represents your siblings, the middle finger represents yourself, your fourth finger represents your life-partner and the fifth finger, your pinkie, represents your future children.

Now it’s time for a little experiment. Place your hands together and bend your middle fingers together, allowing for your knuckles to touch. When doing this, allow for your other remaining fingers to touch.

Begin to pull each finger apart, individually. You will see that your thumbs will pull apart because you are not destined to be with your parents forever. Now do the same action with your index finger and pinkie; you will see the same results. According to the Chinese theory, you are not meant to be together forever with your siblings, as well as your future children as they will leave the home and start a family of their own.

Now try to do the same action with your ring finger, which represents your life partner. When you try to separate these fingers apart, it doesn’t lift as easily as the other fingers, right? This is because you and your life partner are meant to be together forever.

The more ‘practical myth’ behind wearing the wedding ring on the fourth finger of the left hand is that since most individuals are right handed, this means that the left hand is not used as much; the ring will not be as damaged than if it were used on the right hand. Also, the ring finger is one of the least used fingers after the pinkie.

Did you know that not every country uses the wedding ring on the left hand? Countries such as Spain, Venezuela, Peru, India, Norway and Denmark wear their wedding bands on the right hand, however still on the fourth finger. It is said that the wedding ring is worn on the right hand because it is the more dominant of the two, symbolizing the strength of the marriage between a husband and a wife.

So after a few myths, theories and traditions, at the end of the day it is your decision on which hand and finger you will wear your wedding ring.

Facts About Wedding Rings

Fact 1. Bride Prices And Dowries Were Positive

Today, we think of these traditions as punitive and opportunistic, because that’s what they’ve become. In reality, the land, cash, and livestock were intended to help the couple. Domestic animals would help them establish their new household and the other property would help them feed and raise their young family. It’s only when it got commercialized that things turned dark.

Fact 2. The Wedding Ring Wasn’t Part Of The Exchange

In this sense, because the dowry and/or bride price were about basic needs and livelihood, the wedding ring was never part of the bargain. Instead, the couple and their families may swap food items, clothing, dried grain, beddings, and the like. Some families would even exchange servants and female siblings. But the ring was a separate gift intended for the bride.

Fact 3. Men Started Wearing Wedding Bands During The War

During World Wars I and II, soldiers were drafted and didn’t wear any jewelry. So for many of them, their wedding band was both an identity marker and a reminder of home. Some young soldiers would marry just before deployment, so their wedding rings had so much more meaning. After the wars, it was far more common for western men to wear wedding bands.

Fact 4. These Wartime Rings Were Skinnier

These Wartime Rings Were Skinnier

Everything was rationed during the war, from labor to consumer goods. Naturally, gold was in short supply. So the wedding rings forged over this period were low-end utility rings. You were only allowed to mint two-pennyweight rings at most. They weighed about 3 grams and were 9-carat rings (as opposed to the usual 22-carat versions). They were often stamped ( ) to mean ‘u’.

Fact 5. It’s Not Just The Wedding Day

When you’re budgeting for wedding rings, you often include the cost of an engagement rings as well – it’s considered part of the package. But for modern marriages, you might have to factor in the cost of other trinkets as well. Her push present is likely to be a diamond ring. You may have to reset her wedding or engagement rings at some point, and don’t forget key anniversaries …

Fact 6. The Former Left Hand Was Egyptian

In Ancient Egyptian tradition, wedding rings were worn by the bride. The ring was placed on her left ring finger because of her ‘Vena Amoris’. This ‘lover’s vein’ was believed to lead straight to her heart, so it seemed like a logical symbol for marriage. Its presence was later disproved (all veins lead to the heart, duh!) but the tradition stuck around for many more years.

Fact 7. The Latter-Day Left Hand Was A Protest

The Latter-Day Left Hand was a Protest

By … yes … protestants. Specifically, Thomas Cranmer, who wrote the Book of Common Prayer. At some point, many Catholics and Greek Orthodox members moved their wedding rings to their right hand. But the good bishop (1533 to 1556) suggested they switch back as one of their symbolic rituals to distance themselves from the church they had just divorced, pun intended.

Fact 8. Wedding Rings Weren’t Always Metallic

Historically, Ancient Egypt is the first place we see evidence of wedding rings, bit these rings weren’t originally metal. Egyptian wedding rings were first woven from braided hemp or other reeds. Romans are believed to have introduced iron wedding rings for their brides, though it depended on the type of wedding – the Romans had three different kinds of nuptial deals.

Fact 9. The Circle Means ‘Forever’

The reason wedding rings became more popular than – say – wedding necklaces or earrings is the symbolism. The circle is unbreakable and is a symbol of an eternal bond. So whether the ring meant to indicate the joining of two families of the cementing of a business empire, it was meant to be never-ending. This idea is reinforced through modern-day gem-encrusted eternity bands.

Fact 10. The Hole Is A Gateway

While the endless circle on the outside of the ring is about eternity, the hole in the center of the ring is all about beginnings. It symbolizes the entryway created by this union, whether it was a business arrangement or a more affectionate one. (Love marriages are a modern invention, so that’s unlikely.) In Ancient Egypt, gateways were spiritual, so weddings weren’t just physical.

Fact 11. Linking Rings Aren’t New

Linking Rings Aren’t New

Today’s brides often want a wedding ring that clicks into her engagement ring, forming a cohesive whole. Puzzle rings were common in the Middle East. They were interlinked and you had to rearrange them to form the right pattern. Gimmal rings are another popular selection. Don’t confuse them with Claddagh rings though – the latter don’t usually pull apart …

Fact 12. Men’s Rings Can Be Elaborate

Historically, it was wives who wore wedding rings. But as the men started to wear them too, these rings went into two extremes. They could be super-simple – a plain wedding band that didn’t dim his masculinity. They could be a gimmal ring that he wears during the engagement but gives the bride during their vows. Or it could be a trio ring that matches his bride’s pair.

Fact 13. Thimbles Were Sometimes Used As Rings

Among lower classes and early pilgrims, modesty was a big value. That plus cash was hard to come by, So many grooms gave their wives thimbles as an engagement gift or wedding ring. The bride might then snip the top off the thimble to make a ring. If the groom was a bit better off, he might buy her a poesy ring – a simple gold band with meaningful poetry engraved on it.

Fact 14. Modern Marriages Are Unconventional

Whether you’re a same-sex couple or you prefer to be committed partners without a government document, many modern life partnerships have a twist. And their rings express these changes in the couple’s lifestyle. So some couples may opt for a commitment ring. Or a two-bride / two-groom couple may want something less princess-y like a Maleficient Ring or Snow Queen Ring.

Fact 15. Wedding Rings Aren’t Christian

Wedding Rings Aren’t Christian

While many modern weddings take place in a church – even for couples that aren’t religious – the wedding ring was initially a pagan symbol that got co-opted into the church. Brides in other religions may wear their ring elsewhere. Jewish brides often wear it on their right index finger, for example. But most modern coupled wear rings the usual way – left ring finger for both.

Fact 16. The Simplicity Is Intentional

Initially ‘wedding rings’ were given during betrothal or engagement. The only appeared in wedding ceremonies around 860AD. And because these earlier wedding rings were elaborately carved and engraved, the more kosher wedding band was designed to be plain, simple, and unadorned, the yellow gold band of today. But few people settle for that boring old style.

 Fact 17. Triple Rings Have Meaning

You can have a trio ring – where the bride has two rings for engagement and wedding and the groom has one ring. The three rings are designed to be worn as a matching set. Or you could have a three-stone ring for past, present, future or friendship, fidelity, love. You could even have a three metal ring with white gold (friendship), yellow gold (fidelity), and pink gold (erotic love).

Fact 18. Wedding Rings Are Often Lost And Found

It may seem strange someone would risk-taking an expensive or valuable ring outdoors or to the beach. But it does happen. And ring finders have recovered over 300 rings and other bits of jewelry from sandy shores, grassy knolls, and ocean floors. Still, if your ring is worth $1,000 or more, consider getting it insured in case that metal detector fails you …

Fact 19. Modern Rings Are Healthier

Modern Rings are Healthier

Today’s couples are putting more thought into their wedding rings. So they might choose gemstones that are sustainably mined to be kinder to the environment. Or they may opt for synthetic gemstones that use renewable fuel sources. Even when they buy metal rings, they buy platinum, tungsten, titanium. These are hypoallergenic metals with fewer health implications.

Some couples never remove their wedding rings. Others take them off to wash dishes or shake hands. Either way, if your wedding ring has a stone or engravings, clean it at home once a week and have it professionally cleaned using ultrasonic tools at a jewelry store once or twice a year.

Do you and your spouse (both) wear wedding bands? Show us your rings in the comments

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