DEAR Aunty Temilolu, l am Busayo, a youth corps member in Lagos. I learn one in all your articles. You stated ladies, who want to have profitable marriages, ought to steer clear of premarital intercourse. Now l ask, does doing so assure success in a wedding? It is because l know of 5 ladies then when l was in secondary faculty, who lived quick lives with guys/males and immediately, all 5 are married with children, however one other two who avoided males and have been very non secular, are having points with conception of their marriages. How about that ma, as a result of l can’t determine it out?
To begin with, for those who imagine in God however nonetheless doubt the facility of obedience to His instructions and an undefiled marriage mattress, you could want to vary your house of worship! It’s a undeniable fact that premarital intercourse as a rule ends in making a mistaken selection of partner! Additionally, as a result of hundreds of thousands are thriving and succeeding in sin doesn’t imply your future can afford to take action. What your good friend’s future can endure might be what might destroy yours! Now, are you able to think about if biblical Joseph or Esther had been tempted to make use of their flesh to get some momentary consolation after they actually wanted it, would they’ve fulfilled God’s wonderful goal for them? In addition to, sexual purity isn’t the one assure for a profitable marriage however imagine me it does go a really great distance in serving to you compromise with the best individual! On the identical time, I’ve seen virgins who married monsters in human form-the enemies of their destinies so to say! In your pals who’re but to conceive, it will not be God’s time and it might be consequently satanic assaults/foundational issues! If you’re charting your life in response to what’s acceptable on the planet and your pals’ way of life and never in response to God’s requirements, imagine me, you could not fulfill your future! What does the world or silly, unhealthy satan have to supply anybody?
DON’T BE DECEIVED MY DEAR! It might be most tragic so that you can commerce your future peace of thoughts and stability for a sinful lifetime of consolation and luxurious which you might really avail your self for those who labored on your self sufficient! In addition to, what on the planet occurred to delaying gratification? Alternatively, what pleasure can anybody derive from sleeping with each Tom, Dick and Harry, getting dumped after being loaded with a number of and even harmful unusual spirits? Do you assume all may be nicely with such a future? Do you even know the kind of star you carry? Have you learnt the devil- the enemy of your shining might make sure you dwell a pissed off life by guaranteeing you fall into the entice of getting sexual activity with only one man who seems like a knight-in-shining armor? Hmm…Might God open your eyes!
My darling, valuable, wonderful, dignified, world-famous and heavenly-celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Your beliefs and values would decide the alternatives you make and the standard of your whole life and as you lay your mattress so that you lie on it! There are such a lot of on the market together with a few of your mother and father having mid-life disaster combating the battles of their life in nice frustration and even dragging their kids into it due to the unpalatable selections they made of their youth. Lots of households are dysfunctional and plenty of youth are emotionally unstable and already treading on unfruitful and ruinous paths simply because both of their mother and father couldn’t bridle their ardour and made the mistaken selection of a companion whom they will’t elevate a good household with. Nevertheless, I can inform you nobody is a mistake! God definitely is aware of of each single future right here on earth and has made us for indicators and wonders. Isaiah 8:18. So, it’s left so that you can benefit from this promise and never hand over your life to the satan by means of ungodly intercourse! Sure! Each type of ungodly intercourse provides the satan the reins of your life!
I need to warn you that surrounding all of the glamour and enviable way of life you see being flaunted out there’s a highly-tempestuous world which might flip over any unsuspecting individual at anytime. However guess what? Your most potent energy towards such an onslaught and never being swept away by the tide is activating the facility of God along with your sexual purity now that you’re younger, vibrant and energetic sufficient to combat your approach by means of and turn out to be unshakable!